@azoreseuropa.... Confused was definitely the wrong word to use there and i do apologise.
What I meant was if anyone is unsure about themselves in any manner, seeking professional advice would be better than an internet forum. It's more of a mental health issue there as bigots and other keyboard ninjas can and will target you there. Asking the question "what do i do?" suggests to me confusion of their next steps or where to turn.
I also used the word 'archaic' when speaking about feeling that an announcement is required for gay people and not having to out myself as straight.....as it absolutely is. It's ridiculous that job applications ask this question as it's simply none of their business and would have repressed an honest answer in the not so distant past.
I do then agree with your point about letting the world know that being gay exists but my point was we are supposed to be a more tolerable society these days (i know in many quarters we are not tho) but no one has ever said being gay is a new thing and in my experience is accepted these days but I understand that I'm not exactly in a position to verify that.
I have been discriminated against in other ways so please don't think I aim to stop anyone's voice. Everyone should live their lives however they want imo but I'm maybe being too optimistic or naive with that hope.
Lostbhoy its still formated correctly on my end. I think it just shows wrong to the person doing the edit then when you refresh it should fix itself. Well at least it has in the past for me.
Speaking of meatballs, what's the deal with meatball sandwich? How can people eat those? It's ROUND. Trying to bite those in a sandwich is a challenge. It's easier to eat a burger stacked with toppings.