I really need to calm down.

Hey there tempers.

Like the title says I REALLY need to calm but I need a way to calm down other than doing what I really really don't want to do right now.

So what methods or things can calm you or someone you know down when they are deadly seriously angry, hurt, upset and lied to?

I know this isn't much of a Blog worthy thing more like general off-topic but I'd rather have it here where my post count won't increase (I don't know if General off-topic posts increases your post count).

Also try to avoid any kind of flaming because I'm really not in the mood for that shit, plesae just stick to methods of calming down.

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i would say do something you like for example when i get mad or sad i listen to music it distracts me and makes me forget stuff or you can laugh,go watch some funny stuff on youtube. =)
 
Sleeping: I have sleep issues as it is that ones not really an option for me =/ thanks anyway.
Listening to Music full blast may help a little but ultimately it will just make things worse for me >,,<

Dammit I hate being so damn awkward

EDIT: punching walls is also really not an option >,,< been there done that have a hole or 2 in my thin walls.
 
The only solutions I can recommend are drinking, drug abuse, or just play some video games.
 
Go for a ride on your bike?
That works for me...
Assuming you know how to ride a bike, and have one, of course.
 
[quote name='Sora1234' post='2844364' date='May 19 2010, 06:16 PM']*vid*
^This[/quote]
That's not funny :mellow: .
 
I play violent games when I'm upset. Generally beat'em all (Sword of the Berserk on DC, Devil May Cry,...) But the best solutions are :

1) Facing your problems
2) Go and talk with a friend, and maybe get drunk with him (only if you're 18/21, huh)
 
Indulge in a food/drink you like. Drink cold drinks, helps keeping you collected.
 
[quote name='clownb' post='2844342' date='May 19 2010, 11:12 PM']The only solutions I can recommend are drinking, drug abuse, or just play some video games.[/quote]

will probably kill me (even more so on the video games :glare:)

[quote name='_Chaz_' post='2844347' date='May 19 2010, 11:13 PM']Fap?[/quote]

:mellow:

[quote name='Goli' post='2844357' date='May 19 2010, 11:15 PM']Go for a ride on your bike?
That works for me...
Assuming you know how to ride a bike, and have one, of course.[/quote]

well I know how to ride a bike (motor bike too >.>) but I don't fancy being under a bus :) I can't straight so that's not a good idea

[quote name='JohnLoco' post='2844363' date='May 19 2010, 11:16 PM']Face your problems head to head and live in peace.[/quote]

that's never a good idea :mellow:

[quote name='Overlord Nadrian' post='2844368' date='May 19 2010, 11:17 PM']What's wrong?[/quote]

I feel like I've been betrayed by my best friend for 4 years...well basically they have betrayed me and my trust. Taken my feelings and used them to get what they want disregarding how it affects other people. This was...is someone that I care about deeply and I never thought they were capable of it.
 
[quote name='DarkWay' post='2844407' date='May 19 2010, 06:25 PM']I feel like I've been betrayed by my best friend for 4 years...well basically they have betrayed me and my trust. Taken my feelings and used them to get what they want disregarding how it affects other people. This was...is someone that I care about deeply and I never thought they were capable of it.[/quote]
Tell them how you feel about it. If they're that important to you and you've known each other this long, it should work and I can't see it getting much worse if it doesn't.
 
I feel like I've been betrayed by my best friend for 4 years...well basically they have betrayed me and my trust. Taken my feelings and used them to get what they want disregarding how it affects other people. This was...is someone that I care about deeply and I never thought they were capable of it.

In this case you should seriously face your problems. Turn the page, vendetta or just go and tell them how do you feel. But DO NOT STAY LIKE THAT !!!!!!!!!! It could destroy you. One of my friend was in the same situation, he had a depression.
 
[quote name='_Chaz_' post='2844417' date='May 19 2010, 11:28 PM'][quote name='DarkWay' post='2844407' date='May 19 2010, 06:25 PM']I feel like I've been betrayed by my best friend for 4 years...well basically they have betrayed me and my trust. Taken my feelings and used them to get what they want disregarding how it affects other people. This was...is someone that I care about deeply and I never thought they were capable of it.[/quote]
Tell them how you feel about it. If they're that important to you and you've known each other this long, it should work and I can't see it getting much worse if it doesn't.
[/quote]

She knows and it's as if she doesn't care. She was/is (I really don't know which) my best friend in the whole world I trusted her with everything. I don't have anyone else I can talk to like that (except...kinda you guys which is kinda wierd :mellow: (no offence :ninja:))
 
Strange fact, but it's easier to talk with anonymous person than with friends... Is it a "heart problem" ??
 
[quote name='DarkWay' post='2844445' date='May 19 2010, 06:36 PM'][quote name='_Chaz_' post='2844417' date='May 19 2010, 11:28 PM'][quote name='DarkWay' post='2844407' date='May 19 2010, 06:25 PM']I feel like I've been betrayed by my best friend for 4 years...well basically they have betrayed me and my trust. Taken my feelings and used them to get what they want disregarding how it affects other people. This was...is someone that I care about deeply and I never thought they were capable of it.[/quote]
Tell them how you feel about it. If they're that important to you and you've known each other this long, it should work and I can't see it getting much worse if it doesn't.
[/quote]

She knows and it's as if she doesn't care. She was/is (I really don't know which) my best friend in the whole world I trusted her with everything. I don't have anyone else I can talk to like that (except...kinda you guys which is kinda wierd :mellow: (no offence :ninja:))
[/quote]
Oh that happened to me once, kinda, but I did forgive my friend... I just think of it as a misunderstanding.
I hope I'm not lying to myself.
 
[quote name='DarkWay' post='2844445' date='May 19 2010, 06:36 PM'][quote name='_Chaz_' post='2844417' date='May 19 2010, 11:28 PM'][quote name='DarkWay' post='2844407' date='May 19 2010, 06:25 PM']I feel like I've been betrayed by my best friend for 4 years...well basically they have betrayed me and my trust. Taken my feelings and used them to get what they want disregarding how it affects other people. This was...is someone that I care about deeply and I never thought they were capable of it.[/quote]
Tell them how you feel about it. If they're that important to you and you've known each other this long, it should work and I can't see it getting much worse if it doesn't.
[/quote]

She knows and it's as if she doesn't care. She was/is (I really don't know which) my best friend in the whole world I trusted her with everything. I don't have anyone else I can talk to like that (except...kinda you guys which is kinda wierd :mellow: (no offence :ninja:))
[/quote]

If she's gonna be that way, I don't see why she's worth your time. She's obviously not deserving of your company and you should move on. It's gonna be really hard, (I have a friend like that and if I had to cut ties, I'd be devistated) but if you respect yourself than it's the best thing you can do.
 

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