I was contacted by a girl for a lunch-date a day or so ago; though it didn't pan out (because of her crazy boyfriend, probably). I started talking with her because I thrive on having girl-friends; I don't really get much comfort from having guy friends. They really just don't pan out all that often with me. Either way, when she contacted me I was ecstatic, since she's absolutely gorgeous, just thinking about it made me nervous. Just talked with her tonight & mentioned how I didn't want to be her rebound guy; I'm not asking for advice, I'm just writing because I'd like to get this knot out of my stomach; though it may be in part due to the fact that I'm hungry. I'm betting on the latter.
We're both not looking for a significant other, so things are good in that regard. Her ex boyfriend is the definition of psychotic & abusive. I'm not going to get into details, but they broke up so many times in the last year it's not even a question of drunk vs sober, sane vs insane. I would like to go out with her one day, (not that I'm ready), but for now she's an excellent friend...She was also next door neighbors with my best-friend...coincidence much...
We're both not looking for a significant other, so things are good in that regard. Her ex boyfriend is the definition of psychotic & abusive. I'm not going to get into details, but they broke up so many times in the last year it's not even a question of drunk vs sober, sane vs insane. I would like to go out with her one day, (not that I'm ready), but for now she's an excellent friend...She was also next door neighbors with my best-friend...coincidence much...
