So yeah, its about my relationship.
Quick summary: I loved her, she loved me but had an EX who kept on coming back to her life and broke up with me, got back with him. Came back to me but lastly got back with him literally at the worst possible time bashing me emotionally to death. She said a lot of mean stuff and held every little shit against me.
Current state:
Her relationship with her boyfriend hasnt been stable for more than a month and she added me back on MSN. Just for normal talks. But what normal conversations can I have with her? NONE. She said she was mean and rude to me so I would move on and get over her. Just like my previous EX, also she believes that I am a great guy, "innocent" and a really good person. But she kindly explained my mistakes and I agreed with her. Conversations moving on, I asked her if she would ever think of us getting back together. Her response is, that we are still young and I am the kind of person that would want a completely "serious life relationship" and she isnt willing to think that far now. She has her own problems and doesnt want to think about it now.
So I was like OK, so my chances are not completely NIL? Her response "i dont know the future, but please dont force it".
I say "I cant force anything on you. You clearly know my limits".
So yeah, how should I go on in this situation? She is trying to delete her bf from everywhere, but seems like she added him back on MSN today though.
At least now she is not bashing me and saying "GOD FORBID IT! I WILL NEVER BE WITH YOU!"
I truly love her. I can see her points. I am not saying she is the best girl and did everything the right way.. but I just love her. Things that come from her are really not taken too badly by me no matter how hard I try.
So yeah, what should I do?
Quick summary: I loved her, she loved me but had an EX who kept on coming back to her life and broke up with me, got back with him. Came back to me but lastly got back with him literally at the worst possible time bashing me emotionally to death. She said a lot of mean stuff and held every little shit against me.
Current state:
Her relationship with her boyfriend hasnt been stable for more than a month and she added me back on MSN. Just for normal talks. But what normal conversations can I have with her? NONE. She said she was mean and rude to me so I would move on and get over her. Just like my previous EX, also she believes that I am a great guy, "innocent" and a really good person. But she kindly explained my mistakes and I agreed with her. Conversations moving on, I asked her if she would ever think of us getting back together. Her response is, that we are still young and I am the kind of person that would want a completely "serious life relationship" and she isnt willing to think that far now. She has her own problems and doesnt want to think about it now.
So I was like OK, so my chances are not completely NIL? Her response "i dont know the future, but please dont force it".
I say "I cant force anything on you. You clearly know my limits".
So yeah, how should I go on in this situation? She is trying to delete her bf from everywhere, but seems like she added him back on MSN today though.
At least now she is not bashing me and saying "GOD FORBID IT! I WILL NEVER BE WITH YOU!"
I truly love her. I can see her points. I am not saying she is the best girl and did everything the right way.. but I just love her. Things that come from her are really not taken too badly by me no matter how hard I try.
So yeah, what should I do?
