Hellos and Goodbyes

This blog is pretty tragic so please don't feel obligated to read...

So I've pretty well faded away from the temp over the past year or so. Was pretty enthusiastic about Wii/PSP modding but it got a tad old... Then when we found out my wife was pregnant things came into perspective and I really started focusing my energy on my family. A month and a half later my brother and his wife found out they were pregnant also. Our family was poised to have two additions within two months of each other.

My son was born on April 27th, 2011 by emergency C-section. We had gone in for a normal check-up that morning and found his heartbeat to be erratic. About 6 hours later he was in a helicopter headed downstate to the university hospital. We were only a week and a half from the due date so he wasn't born prematurely. Supraventricular Tachycardia or SVT is what he was diagnosed with. It basically means that his heart can go into a state where it beats consistently at well over 200 beats per minute. We spent nearly a week with him at the hospital before he was able to be released. I'm happy to say that he's a beautiful, healthy boy and we're managing his condition with a simple medication. He's had no episodes since we've left the hospital.

On June 13th at around 12:30am I received a phone call from my mother. I assumed when I looked at the caller ID that it was to tell me that my brother's wife had gone into labor. Sadly, it was to let me know that they lost the baby... He was due on June 17th. He hadn't been moving around much throughout the day so they went to the emergency room where they were unable to find a heartbeat. Rather than operate to remove him the doctors recommended that labor be induced... He was born in the early hours of June 14th but there wasn't any celebration to be had... The umbilical cord had wrapped around his neck twice...

Needless to say, my entire family is devastated right now. The funeral is tomorrow. I just don't understand how both pregnancies can be perfect up until the last week... Neither had any issues at all leading up to the births. As rough as it was being in the hospital with my son for that week, we were so incredibly lucky. I have no idea how my brother and his wife are getting by right now... My wife and I shaken up knowing what could have happened those seven weeks ago and are unsure of what seeing our son might leave them feeling.

Please keep my family in your thoughts tomorrow...

Comments

I am terribly sorry such a devastating event has happened to you and your family.

I hope for the best of your family for years to come and wish that this incident will be left behind so you can see the future.

Lots of love to the baby who passed away
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Condolences to your family. I hope that the young soul denied existence in our mortal plane find happiness and peace, as do the family he prematurely left behind.

Take care of your son. Heart diseases are stubborn and difficult to deal with, but with your support he'll be fine. Trust me, I know.

Again, the best to you and your family.
 
My deepest condolences to you and your family.

Your son is a blessing and I'm relieved he lived.
I can't imagine how your brother and his wife must feel...

I hope things get better for you and the family.
Tomorrow will be very rough, I wish such pain did not exist, but unfortunately... I can only hope they can get through something like this in time.

If you leave the temp, farewell old8oy and take care to the best of your abilities.
 
I should note that my son's SVT is something he can grow out of. In fact, at our last cardiologist appointment the doctor gave us the option of weening him off of the medication now but we opted to wait until he's six months old and he's grown some more. There's always the possibility of it coming back later on in life but once he's school-age he'll be big enough that they can operate and rid him of it permanently. We just didn't want to take the chance of putting him through surgery and the complications that could come with it.

My brother and his wife came over and spent some time with us. They seemed to really enjoy seeing my son so that is a huge weight lifted. I just wish there was something I could do for them... I can only imagine how they must be feeling.
 
[quote name='Old8oy' post='3719498' date='Jun 16 2011, 12:27 PM']I should note that my son's SVT is something he can grow out of. In fact, at our last cardiologist appointment the doctor gave us the option of weening him off of the medication now but we opted to wait until he's six months old and he's grown some more. There's always the possibility of it coming back later on in life but once he's school-age he'll be big enough that they can operate and rid him of it permanently. We just didn't want to take the chance of putting him through surgery and the complications that could come with it.

My brother and his wife came over and spent some time with us. They seemed to really enjoy seeing my son so that is a huge weight lifted. I just wish there was something I could do for them... I can only imagine how they must be feeling.[/quote]

If we could take the pain away from our loved ones, I'm sure many would. But what you can do is be there for them like you have been. I'm sure that helps quite a bit.
It's good your son can grow out of that condition. Heart conditions are absolutely scary, so this is a bit of a relief.

Good luck with everything.
 
[quote name='Old8oy' post='3719498' date='Jun 16 2011, 07:27 PM']I should note that my son's SVT is something he can grow out of. In fact, at our last cardiologist appointment the doctor gave us the option of weening him off of the medication now but we opted to wait until he's six months old and he's grown some more. There's always the possibility of it coming back later on in life but once he's school-age he'll be big enough that they can operate and rid him of it permanently. We just didn't want to take the chance of putting him through surgery and the complications that could come with it.

My brother and his wife came over and spent some time with us. They seemed to really enjoy seeing my son so that is a huge weight lifted. I just wish there was something I could do for them... I can only imagine how they must be feeling.[/quote]
Just be there for and support them.
 

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