Bad week

Maybe you should directly confront her about it. My friend (Friend for 3+ years) recently stopped talking to me for a few weeks, and I asked him why. Now were more of friends than ever (Not sure if that sentence made sense).

Only time will tell. You can't go getting all up in her grill about this. It's the only thiing you can really do right now.

If it's that big a deal, you might want to take a dive into a book. Stories always pass the time, and they're interesting. They're an excellent alternate for people.

She was my best friend for almost half a year. Now, barely talking to me.. And I don't get what you said.
Oh, by the way, were both in middle school, 13 years old. If that's any help. 0_0

Not the first time I heard this story, and unfortunately I never figured it out with anyone else either. Suggestion would be to directly confront her about it.

oh yeah last time this happened we concluded/thought it was puberty related and all that jazz about new social roles.

Just ask her what the problem is.

maybe she wants you to go up to her and say hey
instead of her doing that

I dont think you should confront her at all to be honest. If she really has abandoned you for a new group of friends, just like that, she is obviously a shallow person.

Confronting her would just not be worth it, just wait and see how she acts towards you, like you said. If she really has left you for these new people shes not really a friend, and never was.

And shes not worth the effort and energy to chase after. Just leave her be and concentrate your energy on your true friends.

Damn, whats up with all these topics? That sucks for people, seriously. I haven't talked to one of my best friends for like 2 years, finally we are in classes again and hang out just like usual. I guess my school is just pimp like that.

[quote name='p1ngpong' post='1812807' date='Mar 4 2009, 04:16 PM']I dont think you should confront her at all to be honest. If she really has abandoned you for a new group of friends, just like that, she is obviously a shallow person.

Confronting her would just not be worth it, just wait and see how she acts towards you, like you said. If she really has left you for these new people shes not really a friend, and never was.

And shes not worth the effort and energy to chase after. Just leave her be and concentrate your energy on your true friends.[/quote]

Yeah your right, I guess.

It just doesn't seem like she talks to me anymore. D;

Ive been through this before. What was funny I just said hi passing in the halls and such.
She was just annoyed with me, but its all ok, it was just that sometimes, they need their space. Or maybe cause she found out my secret blog and read something about herself. But those chances are slim.

So if she really doesn't want to be your friend, ask her why, then if she doesn't miss you at all, just don't bother.
So just ask her or something, it can be awkward, but it should solve your problems.

Do you by any chance... Like like her?

If so, then this will really eat you up inside.

If not, let her be, it happens. People find social circles which they switch into and stuff. All part of life. I'm sure you'll find other friends too.

At least this isn't you're Worst Week

[quote name='Cablephish' post='1812880' date='Mar 4 2009, 05:04 PM']Do you by any chance... Like like her?

If so, then this will really eat you up inside.

If not, let her be, it happens. People find social circles which they switch into and stuff. All part of life. I'm sure you'll find other friends too.[/quote]

That's another problem. Im not sure if I like her.

[quote name='BakuFunn' post='1812876' date='Mar 4 2009, 05:01 PM']Ive been through this before. What was funny I just said hi passing in the halls and such.
She was just annoyed with me, but its all ok, it was just that sometimes, they need their space. Or maybe cause she found out my secret blog and read something about herself. But those chances are slim.

So if she really doesn't want to be your friend, ask her why, then if she doesn't miss you at all, just don't bother.
So just ask her or something, it can be awkward, but it should solve your problems.[/quote]

What? So I just wait a little?

This is the exact problem I had before.
I did not know if i liked this girl or not. After a month, I found out I did. After telling her and her saying she only liked me as a friend, it did not really affect our friendship.
Oh boy, was I wrong. It deteriorated. She started talking to me less, getting more annoyed the more I tried to talk to her. She even blocked me on AIM for a couple of days. After she unblocked me, our friendship was quite distant.I thought, "whatever" and all I would do is hang out with her for like, 5 minutes every school day. Then she got more distant. I was devastated. I was crazy for her. I had no idea what to do. Then, I asked her why she was becoming distant and aloof to me. She replied "Because I want to finish my homework and go to sleep"
Then, I made a blog to rant at. A few weeks later of blogging (I tried to hide the blog from her) she somehow found out about it and read it. There was a post (almost) about how I was sad that a girl was very annoyed by me, and how I wish I could go back. Well, actually I don't really know if she read it, I am just assuming. The next day we hung out after school, even though she made me extremely jealous of this other guy. I won't get into that though. The few weeks after that, we hung out after school for maybe 30 minutes before she goes onto her train. I try not to bother her that much on AIM or in school anymore. We are not in any classes together.
What I am saying, is just talk to your guy-friends about it, and then just wait and don't be miserable (so DONT follow my example) and, if she really did ditch you for other friends, she was never your friend, and those people she ditched you for would never be her friends.
Just talk to her a bit, hang out for a few minutes every day, and she will find out why you were her friend in the first place.

PS- If you like her that way, don't tell her. You will regret it. Trust me. Wait at least a year before jumping the gun. Then, it won't be awkward.

And a question, does she consider you her "best" friend?

WORST GRADUATION PARTY EVER

[quote name='BakuFunn' post='1813152' date='Mar 4 2009, 08:13 PM']This is the exact problem I had before.
I did not know if i liked this girl or not. After a month, I found out I did. After telling her and her saying she only liked me as a friend, it did not really affect our friendship.
Oh boy, was I wrong. It deteriorated. She started talking to me less, getting more annoyed the more I tried to talk to her. She even blocked me on AIM for a couple of days. After she unblocked me, our friendship was quite distant.I thought, "whatever" and all I would do is hang out with her for like, 5 minutes every school day. Then she got more distant. I was devastated. I was crazy for her. I had no idea what to do. Then, I asked her why she was becoming distant and aloof to me. She replied "Because I want to finish my homework and go to sleep"
Then, I made a blog to rant at. A few weeks later of blogging (I tried to hide the blog from her) she somehow found out about it and read it. There was a post (almost) about how I was sad that a girl was very annoyed by me, and how I wish I could go back. Well, actually I don't really know if she read it, I am just assuming. The next day we hung out after school, even though she made me extremely jealous of this other guy. I won't get into that though. The few weeks after that, we hung out after school for maybe 30 minutes before she goes onto her train. I try not to bother her that much on AIM or in school anymore. We are not in any classes together.
What I am saying, is just talk to your guy-friends about it, and then just wait and don't be miserable (so DONT follow my example) and, if she really did ditch you for other friends, she was never your friend, and those people she ditched you for would never be her friends.
Just talk to her a bit, hang out for a few minutes every day, and she will find out why you were her friend in the first place.

PS- If you like her that way, don't tell her. You will regret it. Trust me. Wait at least a year before jumping the gun. Then, it won't be awkward.

And a question, does she consider you her "best" friend?[/quote]


Well yeah she said I was her "best guy" friend. And this other girl was her "best girl" friend. But I don't know about now. Im on her top for Myspace and stuff like that. She's like talking to this other guy lately. I don't know if she still considers me as a best friend or a friend anymore. She talks to me less and stuff like that. Once in a while she would come up to say Hi to me or hug me. But so far, this week, nothing.

So I don't know. P!ng Pong suggested that I should just wait a little. I guess ill do that.

And yeah, I think I like her now. But I barely hang out with her at school, cause like im "shy" talking to girls.