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Emo Mode Engaged:
On halloween this year, my wife told me she was leaving me. I didn't see it coming. We've been together 9 years and married for 7. We have two kids (2 & 4 yrs.) She found another man that's "just like her" and she's suddenly realized she's been dissatisfied with the marriage for years, and doesn't love me anymore.
I am devastated. It all seems like a very, very bad dream.
The joy has gone out of damn near everything in my life. Even my greatest source, my kids, when they make me smile, they also remind me I'll only be seeing them half as much from now on.
I'm a stay at home dad. My wife works and I keep kids and house. I'm seeing all too well what many women experience when the are left by their husbands. Powerlessness. I don't have very much education and while my wife has been climbing the company ladder and filling her resume, I've been changing diapers, cleaning toilets and cooking. Job skills these are not. I'm having to start over pretty much from scratch, with 100 percent more responsibilities than when I left the workforce.
Life is sucking pretty goddamn hard. I am determined though, to turn and face the sun.
My barn has burnt down, but now I can see the moon. That's what I keep telling myself anyway.
This is one of the only places right now that can actually yank a smile out of me. I've found a friend or two on here as well, and I need 'em now. I've been so involved in "mothering" that I don't have much of a social life.
So, thanks guys and gals, for being a little piece of driftwood in a roaring, angry ocean.
Emo Mode Disengaged:
-mother out-
On halloween this year, my wife told me she was leaving me. I didn't see it coming. We've been together 9 years and married for 7. We have two kids (2 & 4 yrs.) She found another man that's "just like her" and she's suddenly realized she's been dissatisfied with the marriage for years, and doesn't love me anymore.
I am devastated. It all seems like a very, very bad dream.
The joy has gone out of damn near everything in my life. Even my greatest source, my kids, when they make me smile, they also remind me I'll only be seeing them half as much from now on.
I'm a stay at home dad. My wife works and I keep kids and house. I'm seeing all too well what many women experience when the are left by their husbands. Powerlessness. I don't have very much education and while my wife has been climbing the company ladder and filling her resume, I've been changing diapers, cleaning toilets and cooking. Job skills these are not. I'm having to start over pretty much from scratch, with 100 percent more responsibilities than when I left the workforce.
Life is sucking pretty goddamn hard. I am determined though, to turn and face the sun.
My barn has burnt down, but now I can see the moon. That's what I keep telling myself anyway.
This is one of the only places right now that can actually yank a smile out of me. I've found a friend or two on here as well, and I need 'em now. I've been so involved in "mothering" that I don't have much of a social life.
So, thanks guys and gals, for being a little piece of driftwood in a roaring, angry ocean.
Emo Mode Disengaged:
-mother out-